Forgiveness with or without Repentance Part 2

I will now answer the email question posed by a woman writing to her pastor. If you look at all the New Testament passages I provided on forgiveness (part 1), only one of them had conditions on forgiveness. We read…

Luke 17:3-4 So watch yourselves.”If your brother sins, rebuke him, and if he repents, forgive him. 4If he sins against you seven times in a day, and seven times comes back to you and says, ‘I repent,' forgive him.”

Jesus clearly says if the brother in question repents, forgive him; even if he repeatedly sins against you; each time he repents, you are to forgive him. Jesus teaches repentance as a condition before forgiveness. Let’s look at a few other passages of scripture.

In Col. 3:13 the Apostle Paul tells us to forgive as Christ forgives us. How does Christ forgive us? Does Christ forgive us without repentance from our sins? The answer is no. To receive forgiveness from Christ we need to come before Him and ask for forgiveness. Just as Christ freely forgives a repentant sinner, we must be willing to forgive someone who sins against us and repents. Jesus began his ministry in Mark chapter 1:15 by saying “Repent and believe the good news!” Again repentance is a prerequisite for belief. Peter preached a similar message in Acts 2:38 (NIV) Peter replied, “Repent and be baptized, every one of you, in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. And you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.” The Acts passage teaches the need for repentance (and belief) to receive forgiveness from Christ.

Luke 23:34 we see Jesus asking the Father to forgive the Roman soldiers, who were crucifying him, for they know not what they do. The Father, just like Jesus, can only forgive if they repent and believe. Here was an example of Jesus asking the Father to forgive the very same people who put Him on the cross. Only Christianity teaches followers to reach out and love your enemies. The sin of crucifying an innocent man was not unforgivable.

When Stephen asks God to forgive the people stoning him, he seems to be drawing his words from what Jesus said in the Luke 23:34. It was clearly a Christ-like demonstration to all viewing the stoning, including Paul. These are examples of prayers to God on behalf of unbelieving individuals, demonstrating that God will forgive the worst offenders if they choose to repent and ask for forgiveness. It was like Stephen and Jesus was saying, “God as horrible as these sins are, if they look to you and repent, please forgive them.”

I think part of the problem lies in the definition of forgiveness. The apologist, referred to in the email, had a narrow definition and one I think he can justify Biblically. The Bible teaches if the guilty person repents, you are to forgive. Many people have a much broader definition of forgiveness that takes into consideration forgiving unrepentant people with the sole purpose of releasing the burden a person feels when they have been wronged. I agree there has to be a releasing process because if you don’t, the anger can eat you up. However, this releasing process is not what the apologist or I think is the Biblical definition of forgiveness. True forgiveness comes after true repentance.

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  • A Victor Garaffa February 5, 2013, 7:22 am

    I was recently called, for the 2nd time in my life, to serve the Lord in writing a 4th thesis. If you check the internet on any search engine you will find, The Pauline Conspiracy. Just type in my name as above. Your article may well prove to be the answer to one of several questions I am seeking to answer in my current work. One of them deals specifically with repentance and forgiveness. There is an enormous void in the Christian ethic that leaves those sinned against with the responsibility of resolving these issues as though they were the offender. There is no doctrine that allows for those threatened by, “If you do not forgive, your sins will not be forgiven.” I cannot believe that Christ would threaten anyone with an “or else” in his teachings. That is a threat. If I use any of your work I will, as is acceptible in the community of believers, give full credit to you, the Holy Spirit, and your site. I am a member of if you need any verification of the works I have done previously.
    Victor G

  • Hosting October 3, 2016, 2:25 am

    Yes, an unconditional pardon can be granted without the offender ever knowing they he hurt us. But this one-sided forgiveness is not in our best interest, nor in the best interest of the person who hurt us. It devalues the significance of repentance and robs both the offender and us of the opportunity to grow in Christ.

  • Steve Bruecker October 5, 2016, 5:49 am

    This is why I talked about a type of forgiveness that helped the forgiver. People who have been hurt by someone have to be careful to not let their pain and anger dominate their lives. I said this releasing (or some call forgiveness) was needed but it isn’t true Biblical forgiveness, which requires repentance.

    Thanks for your comments,

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